YOUR EMOTIONS TELL US WHO YOU ARE

Author: Enahoro Okhae, Simeon's Pivot Resources

 

YOUR EMOTIONS TELL US WHO YOU ARE

Ever been asked the question “WHO ARE YOU?” Usually there is an imbalance, because there is first a confusion about which part of you to start with; some people say their name, others their position at work, their work history and some talk about their behavior.

Your real self is hinged around your Emotions; because everything you do is driven by your emotions…emotions drive people to act and not to act; even our decisions are pivoted on our emotional state per time.

If you look at the figure below, you will notice that there are different Emotional state pointing to “YOU”. What you would also quickly notice Your Emotionsis that there are six circles that eventually leads to those emotional faces. Those faces represent your emotional state per time, however your emotional state per time is created by those six circle. It is one of our models called the “Six Circle Personality Analysis”.

For example, we say you are nice, wicked, liberal, stingy, supportive, understanding, caring, patience, impatience, aggressive, passive, assertive, calm, hot-tempered, etc. these are definitions of you as an answer to the question “who are you”, and they are all emotional variables not technical. All these emotional variable are however created from a process.

YOU are a bundle of RESULTS gotten from the day to day ACTIONS that you take based on your VALUES. Your values in turn were determined by your BELIEFS which was INFLUENCED by your various ENVIRONMENTS; this means that existing in your deepest root (WHO YOU REALLY ARE) is a combination of positive and negative influences that eventually influences your day to day emotional state and actions.

What has happened is that the cultural, religious, social, educational, political ENVIRONMENT you grew up in or that you have been exposed to built your BELIEFS and VALUES- values such as honesty, cheating, and respect. It is these values that determine your ACTIONS e.g. doing what you say, lying about sales, greeting elders; and these actions are followed by RESULTS we all see that defines YOU.

WHO YOU HAVE BECOME (YOU) might be different from WHO YOU REALLY WANT TO BE. Some people are close to who they really want to be while others are still very far from who they really want to be. If you want a better definition of YOU, then you must take charge of your EMOTIONS, to do that you must change your; your ACTIONS; you cannot change your ACTIONS without changing your VALUES; you cannot change your VALUES without changing your BELIEF SYSTEM; and ultimately, you cannot change your BELIEFS if you don’t change your ENVIRONMENT.

Our website, its content and programs for example, books, preferred people, would create a new environment thus new beliefs, bringing about fine-tuning of values, then your actions will change and a new and better you would be created.

When you exhibit your Emotions, we define WHO YOU ARE.

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January 24, 2017

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