EVER NOTICE HOW MANY OF YOUR THOUGHTS, DURING A COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR SPOUSE, TAKE YOU OUT OF THE PRESENT MOMENT TO FUTURE WORRIES OR PAST LAMENTS?
If you’re not aware of what you tell yourself in your mind (self-talk), and uncertain about how to return to the present moment, you are at risk of mismanaging your emotions in sensitive discussions with your partner.
The thoughts you think inside your mind end up on your lips. Life-draining thoughts cause similar emotions that, in turn, produce unwanted behavioral outcomes, such as reactivity, in your discussions. And, the point is to obtain great outcomes for both, right?